It was around 8:30 p.m. last evening before I left on my 5.625-mile round trip hike to Real Canadian Superstore. The walk was uneventful enough, I suppose, but my interaction with the young South Asian cashier who served me was possibly a little unfortunate in that I think that I left her feeling as if I had been a difficult customer, and I regret that.
Initially while she was scanning my selections that included three tins of sardines, she did them one right after the other in a demonstrable fashion, counting out, "One ... two ... three!"
I said something condescendingly teasing like, "Good girl!" or, "Well done!" And then added, "You must have watched a lot of Seasame Street!"
She looked a bit perplexed at that.
My bill came to $75.04 (rounded up to $75.05 because I was paying cash), so I gave her $90 (a fifty and two twenties because I had no smaller bills), and then offered her a nickle to make it easier for her to return to me what was owed back ─ it would then be a flat $15 instead of having to count out $10 and then $4.95 in change.
But she refused with a surprised smile, declaring that I had already paid far more than was enough ─ $90 when the bill was only $75.05. I had change coming back ─ no more payment was required.
And then she proceeded to painstakingly begin slowly counting out the change at her cash register.
I started explaining that if she only took the nickle, everything would have been far simpler for her; but my speaking to her only added to her uncertainty at the cash register drawer where she was ever-so-slowly working out my owed change, so I decided not to say anything more ─ other customers were waiting after me.
Finally she had it figured out, and then turned triumphantly to me with another big smile and almost lectured me as she handed over the receipt and my change, once again explaining as if I was thick-headed that since I had overpaid with $90 already, and the total was only $75.05, then I had ..."
And here I overspoke and finished her sentence, "Yes, $10 and $4.95 in change coming back. But if you had accepted the nickle, then you would only have had to pay me back $5 instead of the 95¢ in change." (Or some similar words.)
This still bewildered her ─ she now looked serious and maybe a little annoyed because I was owed $14.95 ─ why would $5 be enough back? Was I somehow stupid?
I understood then that the girl was mathematically challenged and unable to cipher beyond what the cash register read out. If it said a certain figure was what the customer owed, and the customer paid with more than was required, she would dutifully obey the cash register's calculation of the immediate refund and do no processing in her own mind.
So the difficult customer (i.e., me) packed up his purchases and just left, regretting the entire interaction that had begun with what had been a cheerful young lass and who ended being visibly upset due to my intrusions into her duty as she perceived it to be.
To her credit, she did count out my change without error and thus did not 'rob' me like the cashier had done early that morning at Save-On-Foods.
I arrived back home to of course find my younger brother watching T.V. I came upstairs to my bedroom to dress down / change clothes, and then came back downstairs with the couple cans of Cariboo Malts (8% alcohol) that I intended to drink once my brother relinquished the T.V. so that I could put our Android TV Box to work.
I refrained from opening a beer while waiting for that invitation from him; but when a commercial came on and he was still not forthcoming, I looked over at him and saw that his eyes were closed and his head in the process of drooping ─ he was passing out.
So I took control of the T.V. anyway. And as I silently sought out the show I planned on us watching via the few streaming apps that I have downloaded into our Android TV Box, he began snoring.
He revived as soon as I rather loudly began playing Vera, however ─ season or series 12's episode four ("The Darkest Evening").
That was a most engrossing episode!
After it was done, it was all my brother felt himself able to sit up any later to watch, so I tuned in nothing else ─ the random YouTube video I set to play via the SmartTube app held scant interest for him, and thus he headed on upstairs for the night.
I limited myself to the two cans of beer, though I had originally intended a third because I had thought that we might be watching something further together.
Maybe it was around 2:30 a.m. when I got to bed ─ I hope no later. And for a second consecutive night my wife failed to show up.
Although I did check the time later in the morning around 7:15 a.m., I was not to rise for the morning until around 8:30 a.m.
My brother emerged from his bedroom around 8:45 a.m. to watch T.V. and start on some instant coffees.
I waited until a little past 9 a.m. before joining him for some T.V., and by then he was quite quick to invite me to put our Android TV Box to work.
I led us off with a 59-minute (59:02) video uploaded September 7, 2016, to YouTube's Real Stories channel: Behind Closed Doors (BAFTA AWARD NOMINATED DOCUMENTARY) | Real Stories.
With unprecedented access to the Thames Valley Police Domestic Abuse Teams, and the victims of violence they are helping, Behind Closed Doors gives an extraordinary insight into the most common violent crime to take place in the home.
Shot over 12 months, and starting from the moment an emergency call is received, the film follows three brave women who each waive their right to anonymity to show how insidious and terrifying domestic abuse can be. The complex emotions involved when someone you love becomes violent are also exposed, and the difficulties for police when those feelings mean victims are not completely honest.
With an unfolding, present tense narrative, the film also exposes the lack of consistency in terms of the length of sentence given to offenders. When the Police repeatedly take one perpetrator to court only to have magistrates release him again and again, the film demonstrates how the huge ordeal of going to court for these victims of domestic abuse does not mean that, in their eyes, justice will automatically follow.
Then it was an hour-long (1:02:35) video streamed earlier this morning at Rumble's Stew Peters Network channel: Thank GOD for Israel!
TRILLIONS sent to Israel, Hundreds of BILLIONS to Ukraine (Israel 2.0), and ZERO to AMERICANS who lost EVERYTHING!
As my brother agreed for himself, I could never endure watching Stew's show on a daily basis.
Next was a 12-minute (12:04) video uploaded March 21, 2022, to YouTube's Dates and Dead Guys channel: The Jackson Assassination Attempt: Why would a house painter try to kill a president?
The Jackson assassination attempt is the first of its kind in American history. The would-be assassin fails, but why did he want “Old Hickory” dead in the first place?
Refer to the actual video description for numerous reference links.
We only got about 20 minutes into one further video, but had to suspend it with an hour or so to go so that my brother could have his bed rest.
A very early sunny morning had begun clouding over, and the sky was entirely cloud-covered for the afternoon.
I had not yet pursued my early afternoon nap when my brother came forth from his bedroom to venture off in his van and do whatever he wanted to get done before bringing it back home to leave here, for he would then be busing away to go drinking.
I was in bed when he brought the van back and then left afoot for that bus.
I seemed to nap quite well, and didn't feel as dreadful as I so often do when I was done.
In recent months I have been dreaming much, although I rarely remember any of them. But enough of dreaming.
Early into this evening, hankering a little alcoholic boost to deliver me from the stark bleakness of my present life, I resorted to some T.V. with a can each of Cariboo Malt and Bumper Crop Crisp Apple Cider (7% alcohol).
My entertainment choice proved most immersing ─ FBI: Most Wanted. Specifically, it was episode nine ("Processed") of season four.
The storyline was well presented, for initially I was quite sympathetic to the central 'villain' Noah who had been told for the past 13 years since he was 15 years old that in a drunken, drug-induced state ─ which he often was in back then ─ he had lain sexually with his five-year-old step sister.
However, he could not remember the event, and wanted to know if he really was "a monster".
But then in the show he murdered a man whose pick-up truck Noah was in the process of stealing, although it is true that the owner was about to use a tire iron on Noah after throwing him to the ground ─ Noah plugged the guy with two bullets from a hastily retrieved handgun he possessed.
And even the child psychologist he had kidnapped was by then coming to believe in Noah's guilt due to his violence and ongoing recklessly threatening behaviour; besides, Noah's father was in prison for similar crimes with children.
At this stage of the episode, I had written Noah off ─ as far as I was concerned, he had to go.
Then there came another turnaround of my opinion.
So yes, a very nicely produced and acted episode indeed!
The couple of drinks ─ and the show ─ got me past most of my doldrums. And afterwards, I had quite a light supper.
I plan to rise at 1:30 a.m. to start preparing for a five-mile+ walk overnight, so I should seek to be abed by as early as 9:30 p.m.
At present, it is 8:52 p.m., so I am going to close this day's post and occupy myself with another matter of importance to me before my bedtime.